Anyone else feel the same?
100%. I shot a Browning A-Bolt Stalker in 30-06 for years and it always beat me to death. Poor stock fit, poor stock design, hard materials, lots of things compounded to make it a beast to shoot. But me trying to be the good ole boy my Dad raised me to be I sucked it up and kept at it. My cousins had 7RMs and 300WMs and I figured I was just a wuss who couldn't handle the recoil, so I toted my 30-30 lever action whenever I could justify it.
Then I had my first long-range adventure with that 30-06, a 2-7x scope, and I walked out to 700 yards on my first attempt. Hooked me.
Soon after I went all in, got a full custom 6.5-284, and was ruined forever because it felt like a 22 compared to the beast. It opened my eyes to stock fit and being comfortable behind the rifle. Now I've moved everything (other than that A-Bolt) into better stocks or chassis. It was a big part of me giving up on buying "complete" rifles and instead buying actions or barreled actions. The few factory stocks I still have are generally B&C, Hogue or, McMillans that were part of a higher scale model. I have one MagPul and TBH it's not my favorite, but it's a functional stock and if it fits YOU that's all that matters.
That 30-06 is so bad I can't shoot Remington 180gn CoreLokt loads without chewing on a foam earplug because I'll get my jaw smacked shut and hurt my teeth. I have a 300 RUM with a CF barrel that weighs ~10# with the scope and I would shoot that thing any day over the 8# 30-06 from hell
Every shot is like being 9 again and my dad sneaking a 3 1/2" mag shell into the 12ga on me.
Small rant:
I also think this is a big part of why the 6.5CM got adopted so quickly. It came in low cost rifles that had better furniture than many of the old magnums. Ugly and tacky looking to be sure compared to a high gloss Monte Carlo with hand checkered grip, but it was a big upgrade for a lot of shooters on just the rifle side, caliber agnostic. It's amazing how much better people shoot on a better fitting rifle, all the more so adding in taking half the recoil in the smaller round. The same guys could have been using a 7mm-08 for the last 20 years and been better off, but the sado-machoistic magnum machine convinced so many people they need a 300WM to pop a whitetail took some time to get over. I still make jokes about the 270 being the original "women and kids" caliber and 308 Win being for wusses that couldn't handle the 30-06, but there I was hearing the same stuff from my cousins over shooting 30-06 and not a big belted magnum.
Meanwhile Pawpaw is over there laughing his tail off because he hunted whitetails with a 22LR and a flashlight
All a big cycle, there's nothing new under the sun, just the next generation re-creating the wheel for the umpteenth time, and the older generation being mad because they reinvented the wheel 40 years ago.