So, I understand the SAAMI COAL, however, if the throat allows, how do I determine the actual safe maximum COAL, so that the bullet is not seated to far out? If I can fit 3.595" cartridges in my mag and chamber the round, how do I determine starting charge grainage and make sure there is enough of the bearing surface being contacted by thr casing?
Slow down, you are jumping into this too fast. Learn the basics first. Do you have a reloading manual? If so, pick a bullet and start with what the manual recommends. Once you get enough experience then you can venture out and experiment with different powders bullets, primers, and seating depths. Like I said, enjoy the learning process.