I find a lot of brass I like and cull the top and bottom 5-10% or so. I don't put a whole lot of stock in case weights, but I do take the time to turn necks so the case necks are all the same thickness. If you don't neck turn or do a lot of brass prep, then you may want way tighter tolerances. Some of the win brass I have used has had as much as a 10 grain spread, but first I sort by neck variance (much more important IMHO), and then turned all necks to exactly the same thickness.
I am not trying to stuff 68 grains in a 65 grain case either though! I feel that what you DO with the brass is much more important than the weight.