I've been teaching high school for 27 years. I can tell you that the kids are not lazy. They're into some weird stuff, IMO. But they show great energy, focus, and persistence in things that matter to them. Were we any different?
Yes and no. The leather belt or paddle that wasn't spared very often tended to make me focus really hard on what I might not have been interested in otherwise. That being cropping tobacco, cutting Gladiolas, splitting firewood, or bailing out the septic tank. Literally. If Daddy said do it you better do it! At his earliest convenience. Like it or not!
Lesson Learned, Early

. It's not ok to sit home and not work because there isn't a job you are interested in. Or that interrupts frivolous interests like weed, drinking, playing video games, instagram, TikTok or doing what your parents asked you to do. I didn't see it so much then but being raised like that ain't all bad. And not having all the distractions we followed people, my Pappy most of all, watched them work, learned how, and helped them. After that we might fish or hunt a bit. That opportunity is still here. But you still need to get your fingers dirty when planting a garden.
The new kids are smarter and have been exposed to more technical stuff or worldly stuff in a shorter amount of time. Some of it fascinating. Some of it poisonous. The holdup is having to buck up and accept that you have to do what you may not like. No excuses! That is where the gap for some comes in. And mostly it's the fault of the parents or lack of parents or discipline.

Guilty! You can tell the kids that are raised right. Some just need a bit of directional influence to take off. Some, like me are hard headed and don't learn so quick! The other side of that coin that's heartbreaking today is some of those kids home lives. Due in part to parents, drugs, alcohol, abuse etc. They get little direction other than school. But gangs have a very real draw in their direction.
If I had been allowed to do only what I was interested in, I'd have played football, baseball, shot guns, chased girls, and drank beer. I did do all of that but it became very clear and of high consequence that those activities did not come before or have an effect on your work. Or next time you would only have one choice! No Timeouts! Yes I'm guilty of trying the timeout method as well.
PS. Sorry I'm killing y'all with long posts. I've been doing a bit too much and my knee has been swelling quite a bit. So it's rest and ice. Dr.s orders plus he put me on Prednisone.

I haven't beat up any trees yet or been forced to move out so y'all must be doing your jobs.

I have been a might grumpy though!
Funny story involving unusual but very effective punishment. Some of you may not like it. It's a little cruel! Read at your own discretion! I had a very good friend growing up and at 14 one of his chores was feeding the dogs. Daddy would come home from work and go check to see if it was done. Lesson learned

parents that ask questions like, did you get your work done today generally already know the answer before they ask!

Parents may not be quite as dumb as we thought. Harry had not fed or watered the dogs. This went on for three days. Harry was, occupied and forgot! The 4th day it came to a head when Harry's dad got home. No yelling, no chastising, Dad simply came in and told Harry, come with me! His dad had fed all the dogs. But the Fort Knox pen door was open. It was 9 PM. Summer, Hot, Bugs, Dad shut the gate behind him. No food, but a fair amount of water. Dad walked by the pen occasionally next day, checking on Harry, but not speaking. Harry was miserable, tired, bored, hungry, and thirsty. At 7:00pm. His dad came out and fed and watered all the the other dogs. He made sure Harry had ample water. Then turned around and went back in the house. About 10pm as Harry's hopes of getting out diminished he saw a light come on and heard the screen door slam. Dad was coming! Dad paused at the door with the key! He said "Boy, you been out here 1 day. Dogs get hungry and thirsty just like you do. Those dogs, if I had not fed and watered them would have felt like you do now but it would have been for four days. If you don't want back in that pen, don't forget to feed the dogs again! Harry never spent another day in that pen!