Sorry that that happened to you. I am very reluctant to ever use PayPal family and friends. It's always a red flag for me if someone requests family and friends only. I usually use PayPal payment and then add 3% . If the seller is no OK with accepting that, then it usually means something is not right.They are a complete rip off. They want you to use pay pal friends and family then you have no proof of payment. They got me for $180.00 plus KelTec P 17.