I was in the marines and have fired tens of thousands 5.56 cartridges in ARs. Never had an issue, never even used the Forward Assist, never a Slam Fire, and never saw another Marine have his AR blow up.
Do see too many UTubes with ARs blowing up and God only knows all the other ARs that are not videoed.
Why:
Dirty Rifle poor maintenance
Wrong Cartridge (300 BK in 5.56)
Incorrect bullet
Incorrect reloading
Trigger timing - fires out of Battery
Squib in barrel
Poor construction (shooters making their own ARs)
Poor Gunsmithing
Why does a perfectly good firearm BLOW UP?
All of the above noted.