This happened close to the 70"s
Don't know if I posted this before but if not, here it goes:
Nov 1968, Thanksgiving. Am on the way to a remote site in Alaska. Having dinner by myself at the Elmendorf AFB Officers Club. Table for one. Am asked if I would be willing to share my table with another single officer.
NO, it is not a blonde sex maniac.
Turned out to be another male officer by himself. Chit chat and he mentions he and his is into wife swapping. Hummmmm! Here I am about to go remote for a year. Gee, that sounds interesting, I say. Is your wife here with you? he askes. No, I say. Sorry, he says these activities are for couples only, but here is my contact info, which I put in my wallet.
Long story shorter, after the remote assignment, I get orders for my family to move to Elmendorf.
After moving into base housing, my sponsor suggests my spouse and I might like to go a neighborhood party. We arrive and I start thinking the host looks familiar but I cannot remember where we had meet. We meet his spouse and she is a stunner.
As we eat and drink I start to think and open my wallet, what to my eyes do I see is but he was the Thanksgiving dinner person I had met a year earlier.
I asked my sponsor if he knew anything about our host and he confirmed there were rumors about them.
I tell my spouse about our hosts and the offer at the Thanksgiving dinner @ the O'Club.
And she was not amused.
Oh well.