Best and best for you is a very subjective question.
Best in terms of indestructible would be a corbin s press for single stage and a dillon 1050 for progressive. But thats in a perfect world for people with some serious spare $.
I would recommend the rock chucker for general hobby use. Just get the press don't mess with the kit. If you have the money go up to the ammo master it will allow a larger bore diameter and more flexibility down the road.
If you have a good stable basement or garage with a cement floor I would recommend an electric scale. If not go with the rcbs 1010, its a superb scale that will last your life time.
Aside from that find what you like, read the midway reviews on a case trimmer, tumbler, powder trickler... etc Go in to a cabelas or similar store and handle them if you can. I love my redding powder trickler and my buddy hates it its just preference. Go for as high a quality as you can afford.
For the best bang for the buck get the redding dies, they are just good dies I really prefer them over rcbs.