I am confused I recently got my wife a .280 and loaded up some 168gr VLD's and after the time consuming task of finding the perfect load and seating depth she shot it several times and wasn't super happy with the recoil and asked if I could reduce it a little bit. The current "sweet" load for the 168's is 54gr's of IMR7828ssc which produced just a hair under 2650fps I'm sure I could have pushed it farther but I was trying to be generous on the recoil. Now the start load for the 140's using IMR7828ssc is 53gr I am guessing I will be somewhere between 56 and 59 grains when I work up the load to once again try to find the "sweet" one. So my question is will the lighter projectile with 2 to 5 grains more powder produce less recoil or am I just gonna be wasting my time. Any help would be appreciated.......